Being a father puts often lot of responsibilities on my shoulder but God also gives the great power of love to handle them. However, one of the most biggest problems faced in one of the world`s most cutest relationship is that sometimes it becomes difficult to take sides between two of your own children. It is the scene in which a person is not even able to take the right side and even not able to say the wrong as the wrong thing.Well this happens when a conflict arises between my two siblings.It is the scene of great complications and should be handled with utmost smartness and care, as taking any one`s side makes the other one feel that you don`t care for him, well it is one of the most difficult situation for a parent as I previously mentioned. Even if a child is wrong he may not understand this fact but would first feel dishearten that his own parent is not standing with him. Even if I try to straightaway make them feel that they are wrong there is a risk that they will still think that they are not being cared and hence arises the need to work smartly.
I like to handle this complex issue in simple way.This can be done, simply by first making the wrong person feel that he is right so that now he gets relaxed and then make him think about the situation and understand the point of view of the correct person. Then he will automatically feel that even if his parent is with him he is wrong and soon he realises his mistake in the mind, now if the parent switches the sides smartly telling the wrong one that he is the culprit the wrong one has the ability and strength to accept his mistakes.My advice is that we should make the children live together in harmony since their childhood so that they are able to accept their mistakes even in the smallest of the conflicts and prevent it from turning into a fight. This can be done by making a child feel the value of the other sibling in his own life, not only they share the same blood but also their hearts should beat for each other`s need.According to me, true relationship are those in which people share no materialistic benefits and still care from the hearts for each other. Everyone might not get this by birth but if we try to make it possible it is not that difficult to achieve.
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